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Frankfort family shares kindness after tragedy

Elaina Mammen
Posted at 11:02 PM, Jan 04, 2023
and last updated 2023-01-05 06:37:05-05

FRANKFORT, Ky. (LEX 18) — A Frankfort family wants people to share a random act of kindness Thursday in honor of Elaina Mammen, who was shot and killed in Lexington in December.

"I remember screaming and crying and I — still wake up wishing it wasn't real and the agony of realizing it is real," she says. "I wish it would have been me. I raised my girls... should have been me, not her."

Mammen remembers her daughter for what she did for others.

"She loved nature and she had a heart of gold. She gave love out like it was an endless stream of water," she says.

It's a love that Heather and her twin sister Ruthie are now trying to share. They know that they'll go to a restaurant tomorrow and pay for everyone's desserts. It's the day that would have been Elaina's 20th birthday.

It's a project they're calling "Go Light Your World".

"It doesn't have to be about money, it can just be praying with someone or giving them a smile when they are sad. It's a way we can honor her and spread that unconditional love to those around us that so desperately need it," says Ruthie.

The Mammen's ask to email them at keepmovinon@hotmail.com with ways that you share kindness on Thursday.

Mammen's death marked the city’s 43rd homicide of 2022.